The week that was
Now that life has returned to some sense of normalcy, we wanted to share with you all the fun and excitement of the last week or so…
Saturday, 3/24
We’re leaving Ann Arbor for Evanston, IL, for Kaitlin’s baptism on Sunday. Turns out that Kaitlin is an exceptional traveler, sleeping most of the time in the car. We’re driving out along with three members of my lab at Michigan (Andrea, Marcy, and Becky) who decided to roadtrip out to the baptism. Of course, we had to time Kaitlin’s dining so that we could stop at the tasting room for our favorite vineyard, Round Barn Winery. We get to Skokie and our hotel around 5 PM or so, and start meeting up with family as everyone trickles in. It’s the first time anyone on my side of the family has met Kaitlin in person, and she is deemed “adorable beyond words” by general accord. After gathering everyone together, we go to dinner at the B a g e l over at Old Orchard and then turn in for the night.
Sunday, 3/25
The baptism at Sheil was wonderful, with all our family and friends together to welcome Kaitlin into the church. Following the reception, most of my family headed back to the Quad Cities. We took advantage of the nice day to walk around Evanston for a while with Kathleen’s mom, brother Dom and his fiancée Melissa and then headed downtown Chicago to our hotel for the next two days. Kathleen’s mom then went down to Midway for her flight out early Monday morning.
Monday 3/26
Kathleen went to work at her office, and Kaitlin and I spend a good portion of the day hanging out with Lauren at her and Jason’s house. Dom and Melissa met up with us and we headed to lunch up at Solomon’s Cookies. That evening, I handed Kaitlin off to Kathleen and headed down to McCormick place to meet up with my old graduate advisor to discuss my remaining paper we have yet to submit on my graduate research. After heading back north, we went to dinner at Lou Malnati’s and then retired to the hotel for the evening.
Tuesday 3/27….let the fun begin
While Kathleen headed into her office again, I packed up the hotel room and got ready to head back home that afternoon. After getting our luggage, Kaitlin, Dom, and Melissa into the car, we all headed over to Kathleen’s office to show off Kaitlin a bit. When we got there, we found out that Kathleen was not feeling well at all. I still had to run Dom and Melissa to Midway to catch their flight, so I left Kaitlin with Kathleen and made the best time I could down to Midway and back. By time I returned, Kathleen had gotten sick and was deteriorating. Faced with the choice of staying in Chicago or trying to get home, we decided to try and make it back to Ann Arbor. Unfortunately, as Kathleen took some medicine for her nausea, she couldn’t nurse Kaitlin. Luckily, we always carry an emergency supply of formula which we used to feed Kaitlin at the rest area on the Michigan-Indiana border. We then hit the road again, making it from Chicago to Ann Arbor in about four hours total with the feeding stop and also driving through 30 min of a torrential downpour (talk about God piling it on). Once we got home, Kathleen tried to eat some crackers and then got violently sick. At this point, we decided enough was enough and headed to the ER. Our friend Marcy was nice enough to come over and sit with Kaitlin overnight so we could leave her at home. The ER staff was pretty efficient, and they were nice enough to give us a private family room so Kathleen could pump while she was waiting to be admitted. She got sick again, and they moved us pretty quickly into an exam room and got Kathleen on an IV and morphine for pain in her side. Gotta tell you, I was getting worried…and as many of you probably agree, the worst thing in the world is not being in pain but to see ones you love in pain. Following a CT, the doctor diagnosed a kidney stone. Good news- not dangerous; bad news- painful as hell. After getting prescriptions for painkillers and an anti-nausea medication, we headed home around 8 AM Wed morning. At this point, I had been awake for 27 hours.
Wed, 3/28
Kathleen stayed on the medications all day, which helped make the pain manageable but also made her too loopy to keep up with drinking fluids. As moving liquid is the only non-medical way to pass a stone, this posed a problem. Our nanny Lori came over in the afternoon, and I was able to get about two hours of sleep in the evening. After Lori left around 8 PM, Kathleen started getting sick again while still on Vicodin and anti-nausea meds. We called Lori, who had just reached her house, and she basically turned right around and came back to stay with Kaitlin for the night. Back to the ER we went, and since we already had Kathleen’s diagnosis we got right in to get her on an IV and pain medication around 10 PM. After an hour or so, Kathleen relaxed (for the first time in two days) and rested comfortably – the stone had finally passed. We headed home at 2 AM, and went to bed at 3 AM. At the time I went to bed, I had gone about 48 hours with 3 hours sleep.
Thurs, 3/29 and beyond
Kathleen spent the day resting and recovering. We ran into a few problems with Kaitlin not wanting to nurse as she had gotten used to the bottle – Kathleen wasn’t able to nurse her while on medication, so she had been bottle fed for 2.5 days. Luckily, Kaitlin has re-adjusted to nursing and all seems well.
That’s a nutshell of last week, thank God it’s over. That being said, it was great to see everyone at the baptism, and pictures should be up soon (if not already).
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